A tiny caravan and dingy moored on Kaiaua beach - Winter this year on a stormy day.
Tell me something...do you ever doubt yourself that you can accomplish new things you've never done before? Growing up I use to think I was stupid but as I've gotten older (and I'm certainly not boasting that I"m intelligent in any way) I've realized that I'm one of those people who doesn't learn in conventional settings such as a classroom with a blackboard - I seem to learn better doing it myself in a hands on manner. The skills I've built up over the years have been from life experiences and I think that if I want to learn something I nut it out until I know I can do it.
Last week after being at my new job for less than 2 weeks I was promoted to being one of the 6 supervisors there. It makes me think that it's such an important role they must see something in me that the management think I can do well. I've had to work so hard in life to get where I am and to earn a wage so that I can provide for myself and when my children were younger. I'm kind of proud of myself that I've made it this far.
My question is: why are we so critical of ourselves when other people obviously see something different?
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Perhaps we don't want to be seen as overblowing our own trumpet..but we need to have confidence in our abilities
As far as your question is concerned. I have suffered an inferiority complex all my life but now that I am close to the end of my career I can see that maybe I wasn't as big an idiot as what I had thought.
When I learn stuff, the analytical side has got to match up with my "gut feeling" or it is not happening. Plus, watching, learning, and doing it myself is better than just reading about it. For example, I could never figure out how to do manual mode on my camera until I took a photography class, and then it was the "aha" thing as they light came on in a matter of minutes. I had been reading about it a lot, but having somebody show me band the light came on fast.
Take care, and have a good week!!
Nice photo and what a great header.
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